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Monday, 12 March 2007

Reason, Season, Lifetime. | 6:45:00 am |



When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes, they walk away. Sometimes, they act up and force you to take a stand. Sometimes, they die. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. Your need has been answered, and now it is time to move on.

I grabbed this one from Xyla's blog found it really inspiring. It explains why people come and go. And if you read through it and reflect on it you will know and understand how to appreciate every single person that comes into your life.

REASON ~ It is the part that really struck me the most, I'm sure that all of us can relate into a situation where someone comes into your life and just suddenly loses them without knowing why. And it hurts so much that no matter how hard you fight for it, you cannot have the relationship that you had with that certain person back. I finally understood why sometimes life can be so unfair, that you had to lose someone you really care about and that you got to have your heart broken. But then again as it is said on the last line of that paragraph 'We must realize that our needs have been met, our desire fulfilled and their work is done.' and be thankful that even for a short time they came and stepped into our lives but changed it forever.

When people come into our life we do not know what their purpose is neither do we know if they are only going to stay for a reason, a season or a lifetime. All we have to do is learn to appreciate and make the most out of the time that we share with them. Tell them how much you care and be the person that they will remember, because we never know it may be the last time that we will see them. Have fun and laugh, and keep the memories in your heart as those are the things that will make you a better person now and in the future.





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